Meningkatkan Evaluasi Diri dan Eksistensi Diri dalam Menemukan Pasangan Hidup: Perpesktif Maqashid Syariah

Abstract

The phenomenon of difficulty finding a partner over the age of 30 is a particular concern for both women and men. This study aims to understand and analyze the factors that cause difficulty in finding a partner at a mature and adult age and to find practical concepts to overcome this problem. The results of this study show that there are criteria that must be met by prospective partners, such as background, education, weight, occupation, economic stability, and there are also indications that this difficulty is caused by past trauma, failed relationships, and differences in the requirements desired by families, especially parents. The situation and conditions within the individual concerned should prompt self-evaluation and improvement of their quality of existence in their environment. An important factor that must be done is to increase worship of Allah SWT and strive to improve patterns of behavior and conduct to be more civilized.